Kathie’s Story

It has been 3 years this month since I started back in CoDA on a regular basis. I used to come randomly for 3-5 previous years, which doesn’t work or didn’t work for me. I have learned so much from CoDA from my friends in my group. Watching everyone grow made me realize that I must be growing and changing, also.

I have made some really wonderful friendships in my group. People that I love and care about. They have taught me it is ok to be vulnerable. They don’t judge me.

When I talk at the meeting everyone listens. That makes me feel important to them. I am not used to anyone listening to me. I have always been the black sheep in my family of origin.

I am working the 12 steps to the best of my ability. Every week I go to a 12-step meeting, and we thoroughly work the steps.

I will keep going to CoDA. My relationships are changing all around me. I have friends who care about ME. Isn’t that Awesome!!

God bless, 
Kathie B.
11.24.2015

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